PCT Between the trail and reality

Family

Noelle here:

Its been over a week since Steve finished Washington. We drove down through Vancouver, WA to see family for a couple days, with the expectation that we’d visit then head to California for the rest of the trail. We had such a wonderful time. We relaxed, read scary stories with grandkids and had a great time!

Family

Family

Family

Landon cell phone challenge

One of our grandsons joked with his dad about getting the new iPhone if he could get 5000 Instagram likes. To be fair, our son said 5000 likes AND you buy your own phone. It was still great fun to watch the likes rise to 750 within a couple hours. I don’t know how kids do that! I think he’s just shy of 1800 likes as I type this.🤣

“#emojionpoint” That cracks me up! 😂

Family

Trish

Family

Bill and Estelle

We also visited with my sister, brother in law and Dad. Then, instead of driving to Cali, we ended up flying to Colorado Springs with Steve’s parents. Here’s a fun picture of them holding their wedding picture. 62 years of marriage! What an inspiration. They show us again and again what honoring your vows looks like in every day life.

Our current plan is to head back to Portland this evening. Then drive back to California in a couple days to start back on the trail. However if we’ve learned nothing else during this summer outside, it’s that flexibility is the name of the game.

(Update: changed flights to the next afternoon)

(Second update: we changed them again and stayed a little longer)

#flexibiltyinaction 🤣

As it turns out, we got back to Vancouver in time to be here for my dad to have a heart procedure. Not an easy thing, especially for the over 80 crowd.

I definitely have a swirl of conflicting feelings, as I want to see Steve finish the trail, even with this reality of the parental pull. Steve has expressed the desire to give the Pacific Crest Trail his all and leave nothing on the table. I believe he’s done that.

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Steve and his parents

I believe this week, in trying to care for his parents, he’s continued to do just that.

My love and respect for Steve has grown this summer during such a physical and mental challenge. My love and respect for the way he has tried to help support and guide his parents over the past few years couldn’t be stronger. He has a special bond with them and it’s beautiful for me to witness.

Life is hard sometimes. Aging parents are really hard sometimes. There’s so much joy in individual moments, even while there’s sadness amid the realization that things won’t ever be the same again.

Family

My parents

I was listening to a band named Sugarland today and one song had the line, “do you know that with all I have left in my very last breath, I will call your name”. That’s the kind of love I saw in my parents before my mother died. That’s the kind of love I see in Steve’s parents.

That’s how I feel about Steve. With all I have left, in my very last breath, I will call your name.

Family

Steve and his Mom

14 Comments

  1. Gregory Fast

    You made me cry!

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    • mcgarveysan

      Awwww. Hugs to you and Kathleen! Two beautiful people! ❤️

      Reply
  2. Anonymous

    You two are just amazing. Being so flexible and understanding of life – such an inspiration!
    Love you both ❤️

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    • mcgarveysan

      Thank you very much 💕

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  3. Mason

    Wonderful adventure….my student would love to meet you if you are interested in a classroom visit in Red Bluff.

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    • mcgarveysan

      Hi Mason. That would be delightful. Not sure if we can make it happen but thank you for your kindness!

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  4. Laurie Pacer

    Ok, you made me cry, too ♡

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    • mcgarveysan

      Speaking of role models, you and Bob are definitely that to us. Love to you both! ❤️

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  5. Danielle Collins

    Oh, let me just start the morning off bawling like a baby!
    I am so incredibly proud of the both of, inspired by your time and determination on the trail, your love for each other, and your selfless love for others! You are both beautiful humans and such wonderful role models for your children and grandchildren.
    Now, go kick some ass in the Sierras!❤️

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    • mcgarveysan

      Crying on your birthday! Well that wasn’t planned well on our part. 😁 it doesn’t get much better in life, than your children and grandchildren thinking highly of you. That is my idea of success! Love you so much! Mom

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  6. Pris

    Beautiful ♥️

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    • mcgarveysan

      Thank you very much! 💕

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  7. VFat

    Steve looks like his parents. (Unsurprisingly)

    Need more pictures of the two of you together!

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    • mcgarveysan

      He does look a lot like them, even with the beard! 💕

      Reply

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